Cost guide
How much does a matchmaker cost?
Traditional matchmaking is priced by consultation, not by a public page: packages typically run about $2,500 to $50,000, and elite retained search reaches into six figures. Find Your Person publishes its price instead — Free, Premium at $29.99/mo, and VIP at $49.99/mo — no consultation required.
The matchmaker price ladder
Every band below is a public list price, not our opinion of the service. Consultation-gated pricing — where the number only appears after a sales call — is the industry norm above the subscription-app tier.
| Price band | Who | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| $0 – $40/mo | Subscription dating apps | Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, Match — broad discovery, not matchmaking |
| ~$20/mo | AI “wingman” copilots | AI-assisted messaging, not introductions |
| $16 – $35 per setup | Pay-per-introduction AI matchmakers | e.g. Sitch $25–35/setup; Amata ~$16–20/date¹ |
| $29.99 – $49.99/mo | Find Your Person | Published subscription pricing, no consultation |
| ~$1,595/mo | VIDA Select | Month-to-month human matchmaking¹ |
| $2,500 – $6,300+ | Package human matchmaking | It’s Just Lunch, Tawkify, Three Day Rule — quoted after a consultation¹ |
| $15,000 – $500,000+ | Elite retained search | Selective Search, Kelleher, Agape, LUMA, and similar firms¹ |
¹ Reported public examples: Sitch $25–35 per setup; Amata approximately $16–20 per date; VIDA Select approximately $1,595 per month; It’s Just Lunch $2,500–$3,500 for a typical package; Tawkify publishes packages “from $4,900” for three matches, with higher tiers reported up to $50,000–$70,000; Three Day Rule from $5,900 to roughly $18,500; elite retained search firms (Selective Search, Kelleher, Agape, LUMA, and similar) run $15,000 to $500,000 and up. Sources: company pricing pages and industry reporting compiled in our market research. Confirm current pricing directly with each company before deciding.
Why matchmaker pricing hides behind a phone call
Consultation-gated pricing is the industry norm: the number you eventually pay is set during a sales conversation, not published where you can compare it beforehand. Packages are typically priced by a fixed count of introductions, not by whether any of them go well — so the price you are quoted may have more to do with the conversation than with your situation.
Where Find Your Person sits, and why
Our published $29.99–$49.99 per month sits at the floor of the whitespace between AI copilot apps and human matchmaking packages. We publish it for the same reason we publish our matching weights: you should be able to decide without a sales call, and every member — on every plan — completes the same interview and screening. Paid tiers change cadence and features, never who gets vetted.
Pre-launch: Find Your Person is not yet live, and billing activates at launch. Joining the waitlist is free and needs no card. Any price and renewal terms will be shown before a purchase.
Direct answers
- How much does a matchmaker cost?
- Traditional matchmaker packages typically run from about $2,500 to $50,000, and the price is quoted only after a consultation call — it is not published on a website you can compare in advance. Month-to-month human matchmaking services run around $1,595 per month. Find Your Person publishes its price instead: Free, Premium at $29.99/mo, and VIP at $49.99/mo¹.
- How much does Tawkify cost?
- Tawkify publishes packages “from $4,900” for three matches — roughly $1,633 per introduction — with higher tiers reported up to $50,000–$70,000. That is a public list price, not a quote we obtained directly; confirm current pricing on their site before deciding¹.
- What are some alternatives to Tawkify and similar matchmakers?
- The category ranges from subscription dating apps, to pay-per-introduction AI matchmakers ($16–35 per setup), to published-price AI matchmaking subscriptions like Find Your Person ($29.99–$49.99/mo), to consultation-gated human matchmaking ($2,500 and up). The right alternative depends on whether you want a published price and no sales call, or a human matchmaker managing the process end to end.