Frequently Asked Questions
How does my matchmaker know what I'll find attractive?
You can complete an optional photo-pair exercise that helps personalize visual-preference signals. Those signals are considered alongside stated preferences, interview-derived traits, distance, activity, and other factors. They improve ranking, but they cannot guarantee attraction in person.
Is this an AI chatbot I'm dating?
No. The AI assists with interviewing, ranking potential introductions, and generating reasons or conversation suggestions. The people you are introduced to are members of the service, and your messages are with them—not with an AI date.
What does the modeled conversation actually mean?
The system models a conversation between two profile representations and evaluates signals such as conversational fit and the estimated likelihood of a second date. That result is one part of a broader match score. It is not a recording, a real interaction, or a promise that an actual date will go a certain way.
Why do I have to do an interview?
The interview gives the matching system more context than a short bio: relationship goals, values, habits, communication preferences, and dealbreakers. It takes more effort up front because those answers are used to build the profile and compatibility signals that drive recommendations.
How many introductions will I get?
The free plan is designed for up to three shown introductions per week. You may receive fewer when there are not enough eligible members in your city or no candidate clears the matching threshold. Standard introductions currently have a three-day response window.
Is it free?
Joining the waitlist is free and does not require a credit card. The product has a free plan and planned paid options. Any price and renewal terms will be shown before a purchase.
When does my city launch?
The service is pre-launch and plans to invite New York City members first. Dates for New York and other cities have not been announced. Join the waitlist to receive availability updates for the city you select.
Still have questions?
support@findyourperson.live